Q. My hair tangles up in the worst way especially when I take down styles like kinky twists, box braids and Ghana weaving. Take down is a nightmare and most times I keep in these styles longer than necessary to postpone the day. I have also tried rocking twist outs but it gets tangled up by evening. I don't know what else to do. My hair is about chin length when stretched and very kinky. I don't like my hair at the moment and am contemplating texturising it. I love the volume my natural hair gives me but the tangles!!!
What do I do?
O.A
Lagos

A. I can definitely feel you on this one! Sometimes my hair tangles up so bad that I want to chop it all off! Having hair that tangles easily makes washing and styling of the hair a nightmare. It also robs the hair of length as trying to detangle breaks off the hair making it look like your hair isn't growing. Infact this is one of the main reasons most women opt for chemical relaxers as they have no idea how to get rid of tangles on natural hair.
With proper methods I will list below, tangling and knotting can be reduced to the barest minimum and take down and washing of your hair will be a breeze.
First of all, you need to eliminate the possible causes of tangling.

- Is  the hair dry and brittle?
 Dryness causes curly/coily hair to knot up on itself much like a leaf curling up when it's dry. This can lead to tangles. When the hair is in protective styles made with extensions, it is difficult to properly moisturise the hair  as it is encased in the extensions.
There is an erroneous belief that application of oil based products like hair grease, waxes, oil sheen spray is sufficient to keep the hair moisturised. This is not true as the only moisturiser is WATER. The oil/grease simply coat the hair and attract dust and lint which intertwines with your hair causing it to tangle on take down.
To prevent tangles due to dryness and brittleness, it's important to use a water based moisturiser mixed with natural oils that is absorbed by the scalp and hair. There are commercial braid sprays such as Just For Me Braid Release available that you can use to keep your hair moisturised in the protective style and during take down.
You can make yours with this simple recipe:
Mix 1tbs aloe vera juice + 1 tsp olive oil (or any light natural oil) + 100ml distilled water in a spray bottle and apply to hair daily.

- What hair products do you use?
Like I said above, using water based products to moisturise and hydrate your hair prevents dryness and knots.
Petroleum based oils and waxes clog your pores, attracts dusts and lint increasing the likelihood of tangles. They also coat the hair strands and keep water out of the hair strands. This is good if your hair has been properly hydrated prior to application but bad if it hasn't.
Avoid products containing alcohol unless it's fatty alcohol as it dries out your hair.
Do you cleanse your scalp and hair while in protective style? Opt for a sulfate free shampoo instead such as Curls Unleashed Lavish in Lather, Giovanni, Carol's Daughter Rosemary Mint Clarifying Shampoo.

- Was your hair properly detangled prior to styling?
Properly detangling your hair before styling will reduce the likelihood of tangles during take down. As naturals in a country where there is little or no knowledge and support in hair salons regarding natural hair care, it is necessary to properly detangle the hair at home before heading out. I recommend stretching your hair with a blow drier on low setting ( don't forget your heat protectant) to straighten it so your hair stylist who is more accustomed to straight relaxed textures won't rip through your hair while smoothening it for braiding/twisting.
In the process of trying to wrangle with your natural hair, the inexperienced stylists will create more tangles that you'll have do deal with during takedown.
Detangle and moisturise your hair properly to prevent tangling of your twistouts

- How long was the style in for?
The longer the style is in your hair, the more likely it will tangle. Also the smaller the twists/braids/cornrows, the more the likelihood of tangles. As a rule of the thumb, long term protective styles should not be left in for more than 3 weeks.

- How do you take down your style?
When taking down numerous twists, braids and cornrows, it is easy to lose patience and rip through tangles rather than carefully working them out.
Do not leave detangling your hair till you've taken down the whole style. This would lead to numerous, painful tangles.
 Remember that during the life span of your hair style, dust, lint and shed hairs would have accumulated at the roots loosely tangling up your hair a little bit. By carefully detangling and removing the shed hairs and lint in a smoothing motion, tangling will not be a problem. After detangling a considerable amount of hair, twist loosesly to prevent recoiling of the hair. For stubborn tangles, apply a good amount of detangling conditioner to the tangle and carefully untwist and unknot the hair.
Also, as much as possible, try to take down your hair yourself. It is a tedious time consuming process but rarely does the paid hands in the salon have the patience  to work through any tangles on your hair. most likely, they'll rip through it or leave it.

- How do you comb and wash your hair?
Combing your hair dry and without slippery products is a big NO for natural hair. Natural hair should only be detangled when damp or wet and loaded with detangling conditioners and natural oils. Combing out your hair in small sections will also make detangling easier. Retwist each detangled sections loosely to prevent tangles.
Use only smooth wide toothed combs to detangle your hair.

Personally, when taking down any long term protective style, I first of all spray my hair with a light oil/conditioner/water mix and cover with a shower cap for 10mins.
This helps soften and rehydrate my hair thereby reducing tangles and knotting.
When I take down a twist or braid, I spray a little with the conditioner mix, detangle carefully with my fingers or wide tooth comb and when I've taken down a considerable number of twists, I detangle through a twist. By the time I'm through with take down, my hair is totally detangled and ready for washing. Then before shampooing, I prepoo with olive oil/ coconut oil/ shea butter/ castor oil and a deep conditioner and cover with a shower cap for 30mins before shampooing.
I shampoo the roots and scalp only in sections by massaging with the pads of my fingers in the direction of hair growth. This helps reduce tangles considerably.
I detangle again on conditioner laden hair and retwist each detangled section then rinse under cold running water to close up the hair cuticles. Tangles avoided!

- What is your night time routine?
Do you fall into bed with your hair all over the place? Then welcome to tangle city!
Even if your hair is braided up, it is important to cover your hair in a satin scarf or sleep on satin pillows. Satin don't have to be silk blend! It can be polyester but the smooth shiny surface of the material is gentle on the hair and does not rub it or dry it out the wrong way.

- Do you have splits and knots?
Split ends and knots lead to tangles so trim them off if you notice them. As a preventive not corrective measure, I recommend the use of split remedy hair care products for split prone hair. They are actually designed to temporarily "glue" splits together though the best method is to trim them off!

Do you have any questions? Send them to nappilynigeriangirl@gmail.com

Live Beautifully. Naturally.
Hadassah.

Perfect twistout on natural hair

I am beginning a series of posts on different natural hair styles and how you can achieve them!
The first hairstyle on the list is the TWISTOUT!
This style is a favorite among naturalistas and is done by installing small,medium or big sized twists in your hair and then carefully untwisting!

This style is done to
-obtain uniform curls, spirals and waves.
- stretch tightly coiled hair
For many naturals, the twistout is their go to hairstyle and is really beautiful.

Personally,the perfect twistout is one with
- uniform curls,spirals and waves
- properly defined curls,spirals and waves
- little or no frizziness
- volume and shine
- soft to touch and well hydrated.
- long lasting so you don't have to style daily!
- well stretched with minimal shrinkage.

From experience, you don't really need a plethora of products to get the perfect twistout.
Basically, the products you need are
- moisturiser
- styler/gel (for hold)
- sealant ( to seal in moisture) and you are good to go.

What you really need is the RIGHT TECHNIQUE for your own hairtype.

A natural with loose coils may use techniques which may not work well for those with tighter coils and vice versa.
Also your twistout may or may not look exactly the same as that of the next natural diva.
So in summary, work with YOUR own hair type to achieve the twistout perfect for YOUR OWN HAIR.
With practice,you'll be able to achieve consistent twistouts!

Okay, I know you are tired of the mumbo jumbo and can't wait to get started but I really want you to nail that twistout the first time so I want to tell you stuff that may make your twistout go 'bleh'!
*Weather 
You can have perfect twistouts indoors but as soon as you hit the door, your hair goes up like an opened umbrella!
This is because of humidity. For some,this is not a problem as it gives that limp twistout the much needed volume! For others...hmmm!
To reduce the likelihood of poofiness and frizziness in humid weather,
- Deep condition thoroughly. I find that hot oil treatment before twisting help my twistouts last longer before it poofs up.
- Make smaller twists. Reducing the size of your twists means that you don't have to separate the twistout into smaller bits. The humidity in the air will give you the volume you might want to achieve with fluffing.
- Twisting with alcohol free gel/flaxseed gel helps maintain definition and holds your twistout together. Mix with oil or compatible moisturiser to reduce crunchiness.
- Gently sealing the twists with castor oil/ antihumidity serums containing Dimethicone( an insoluble silicone that creates a barrier against water) helps protect your twistouts from humidity. Properly moisturise hair before coating with silicone.
- Products containing glycerine, propylene glycol draw moisture to the hair which in humid conditions can cause poofiness, shrinkage and frizzing of your twistouts.

*Incomplete drying
Your twists should be completely dry...as in 100% dry before unraveling for a twistout...believe me, I've been there!

*Presence of Split ends and knots.
These prevents the end of your twistout from being smooth and leads to tangling. This increases the likelihood of frizziness during the separation of twists. Trim off your splits!

Here are videos I found helpful in achieving the perfect twistout.







Note that, I included videos of vloggers with different hair textures so you'll hopefully find a technique that would work for your hair texture.

Dudu Osun shampoo...suitable for natural hair?

Hi naturalistas!
I understand it's really cold right now in the temperate regions while it's hellishly hot here in Nigeria! How are you all coping???
Today I was just thinking about how most of the hair products naturals in Nigeria use and review are imported!
It's not really easy to source these hair products and when we do find them, their prices are usually double the recommended retail price as every transport and import duty cost has been added on....not to mention that some of these hair products are precariously close to their sell by date!
So, I wonder, " Aren't there any Nigerian hair products suitable for natural hair available????"
I'm not really talking about natural locally sourced raw products like Shea butter, coconut oils and such.... or even the handmade blacksoaps!
They are all very very good but I think some naturals including myself will like to feed our product junkie spirits with good quality made in Nigeria natural hair products such as shampoos, conditioners, stylers, gels and everything in between!

Guess what napchicks?!!
NNG is honored to be featured in B.S.S. magazine- one of the "chiquest"  quaterly Christian women lifestyle magazines in Nigeria and we're excited!

TY Bello

I went to Port Harcourt for a few days and when my cousins took me round the city,I noticed something.Almost all the ladies on the street had a good hairstyle!
This was probably because of the Christmas and New Year celebrations.
There were ladies with beautiful Brazilian/Peruvian/Indian/Malaysian weaves, ladies with beautiful cornrows and ladies with beautiful braid and twist extensions. I admired them all.

Then a thought popped into my mind " I wonder what their real hair looks like beneath all these?"

Hi people!
This is my first post for 2013 and I am wishing you all a very dream to reality new year!
I'm sure many of us have written down new resolutions for the year!
I admit I haven't. I haven't written a new year resolution in a long while so that I don't get my knickers in a twist when I don't fulfill everything on my list.

I do a recap instead, of my life the previous year, note my successes and my failures and learn from both of them.
Hopefully in the new year I will be able to handle some situations differently....and that's it!

Since this blog is a bit.... okay a lot about natural hair, I would like to share what I learnt the previous year.
- I have finally perfected my twist outs on my hair. I call it the " SHINGLE and TWIST".
I had my twistouts last a week one time. My twistouts also stayed put in wet season and dry season without much frizziness and dryness. 
I have also learnt that the smaller your natural coils,the smaller your twists should be for a long lasting defined twistout. Also, the hair should be thoroughly deepconditioned and your hair should keep outta your hair!

Defined curls using "Shingle and Twist" method

- I have learnt that NappyGirl pudding  provides great moisture for my hair. I am not saying this to promote or advertise myself....which is not a bad idea though...lol! It has really helped with retaining moisture which is something for my fine dry porous strands! It is such that I may be able to do without buying commercial moisturisers for my hair in the future........ummm..make that the far future because I quite enjoy my product junkie ways!

NappyGirl Pudding

- I have learnt that the picked Afro is not my hair's best friend especially during harmattan/dry season and I will put my foot down whenever I am asked to wear a fro to make a loved one happy....."no" will do.
If you must rock the picked fro though, a hot oil treatment before hand helps with maintaining moisture and softness. I have learnt the best way to rock a fro is with my hair "shingled".

- I have learnt that my hair doesn't particularly like braid extensions as a protective style but thrives really well with weaves.

- I have learnt that my hair loves protein treatments once a month. Porous hair need regular protein treatments to keep it strong and reduce breakage.

- I have learnt my hair loves hot oil treatment especially during the dry season. My coils really bounced back! I used a mix of soya bean oil, olive oil, coconut oil and Shea butter for the treatment on dry hair first. Then I spritz with a little water and bagged my hair for 30mins before washing under cold water.

- I have learnt that mini twists as a protective style will now be my go to style as my hair loves it. For hold and to reduce frizzies, I twist with Aloe Vera gel and seal with NappyGirl Pudding.

- I have learnt not to be scissors happy during my search and destroy missions when getting rid of knots and splits...

- I am still learning to drink the recommended 8 glasses of water even though I keep a cup filled with water by my bedside....speaking of which I have learnt not to begin water therapy when I'm on the move...it's really embarrassing!

- I have learnt that I do not really like Herbal Essence Hello Hydration conditioner for my cowash as it does nothing much for my hair. I will return to my Organics Root Stimulator Replenishing conditioner for my cowash. I do wish it comes in a bigger size.
The Aussie Moist Shampoo stays.

- I have learnt that washing my hair in twists and shampooing the roots only is beneficial for my hair.

- I have learnt that finger detangling is great for my fine hair.

- I have not perfected the Bantu knot out on my own hair.I don't get the smooth curls I see in videos. I still end up with a poofy rooted, tangled mess...funny though that I seem to nail it when I do other people's hair.

- I have learnt that dried ground Rosemary leaves is a very good scrub for oily skin. I thought I was the only one to notice smoother, silkier skin after scrubbing until my sis tried and said the same thing. Infact she took almost all the rosemary in the kitchen when going back to school!

- I have learnt that castor oil is as good as they say. I mix it up with aloe gel and apply to my edges and ends each washday. I use it as a prepoo too.

I have learnt these and more in the course of caring for natural hair last year! Excited to see what I'll learn this year!

On life,
- I've learnt that a deeper connection with God is the way to fulfillment of your dreams. Begin your day with God and see all His plans fall into place.

- I've learnt not to doubt myself....I'm still learning.

- I've learnt that to receive love, you have to show love.

- I've learnt that if you really want something that's good, even nature conspires to help you.

- I've learnt or still learning to take care of today and do all I have to do today...

- I've learnt that to fail...which is painful...is not the end...it's the beginning.It may not have worked out your way but in God's plan, it went perfectly. We can't see the tips of our noses without a mirror and even that gives us a wrong image. How then can we trust ourselves to see our future. Trust in God. See your future.

I got a new year message from a friend of mine that I'd love to share with you because it sums up what I learnt last year and more that would be useful this year. Enjoy!
Handbook 2013
    
              HEALTH
-Drink plenty of water.
-Eat Breakfast like a king, 
      Lunch like a prince &
      Dinner like a beggar.
-Live with the 3 E's--
        Energy,
        Enthusiasm &
        Empathy.
-Make time to pray.
-Play more games.
-Read more books than you did
      in 2012.
-Sit in silence for at least 10
      minutes each day.
-Sleep for 7 hours.
-Take a 10-30 minutes walk
     daily And while you walk,
     Smile.
    ➰➰➰➰➰➰➰➰➰
          PERSONALITY
-Don't over do. Keep your
      limits.
-Don't take urself so seriously.
     No one else does.
-Don't waste your precious
      energy on gossip.
-Dream more while you are
      awake.
-Envy is a waste of time. You
     already have all you need.
-Forget issues of the past.
     Don't remind your partner with
     his/her mistakes of the past.
     That will ruin your present
     Happiness.
-Life is too short to waste time
      hating anyone. Don't hate
      others.
-Make peace with your past so
     it won't spoil the present.
-No one is in charge of your
      happiness except you.
-Smile and laugh more.
-You don't have to win every
   argument,Agree to disagree.
     ➰➰➰➰➰➰➰➰➰
               SOCIETY
-Call your family often.
-Each day give something good
      to others.
-Forgive everyone for
      everything.
-Spend time with people over
      the age of 70 & under the age
      of 6.
-Try to make at least three
      people smile each day.
-What other people think of you
      is none of your business.
     ➰➰➰➰➰➰➰➰➰
                  LIFE
-Do the right thing!
-GOD heals everything.
-However good or bad a
situation is, it will  change
No matter how you feel,
     Get up,
     Dress up and
     Show up. The best is yet to come.
-When awake in the morning thank GOD for it.

Cheers!
Live Beautifully.Naturally.
Hadassah.